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Built by a Third Culture Kid, for Third Culture Kids

For the ones who were
never quite there yet.

You've moved between worlds. You know what it feels like to sit in a room where everyone already has their people โ€” and not know how to signal that you want to join. The guides here are written from that exact feeling.

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Why this exists

Built by someone who kept starting over

Not a counselor. Not a nonprofit. A student who moved through Nigeria, Malaysia, California, and Virginia โ€” and figured most of it out alone, the hard way.

Founded by a Third Culture Kid
"It was rough. But I always kept a positive attitude. I think at some point I became numb to starting over โ€” making new friends, building new routines, figuring out who I was in a place that didn't know me yet."
Nigeria โ€” primary school. Skipped 4th grade. Left before secondary.
Malaysia โ€” grades 7, 8, 9. Three years in the Malaysian system.
San Francisco, CA โ€” California rejected the 9th grade credits. School wanted 8th. Pleaded to stay in 9th. Wrong PE class for 4 days.
Amherst, VA โ€” 11th grade. First question everyone asks: why did you move from SF to here?
The moments that built this site
The reset
In Malaysia, teachers came to your classroom. First week in California, I was following a kid from my first period just to figure out where to go. Walked into the wrong PE class and stayed four days before saying anything. Also โ€” they rejected my 9th grade credits entirely. School wanted to put me in 8th. I had to argue my way into 9th.
The advice that missed
A counselor kept telling me to join a club or a sport. Over and over. She didn't realize I wasn't avoiding it โ€” I just didn't belong yet. You can't force belonging. It doesn't work like that.
What nobody talks about
After enough resets, you don't stop making friends โ€” you just get numb to it. You know how to start. You know how it ends when you move again. That numbness is real, and nobody warned me about it.
The mission
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Guides written from lived experience

Every guide comes from a moment where the right information didn't exist โ€” so someone had to figure it out the hard way. No templates. No guessing.

Start here ๐Ÿ‡ณ๐Ÿ‡ฌ Nigeria โ†’ US
What No One Tells You About Moving from a Nigerian Curriculum to US Credits
The subjects don't map. The grading scale confuses counselors. Your Further Mathematics result has no box. Here's what to say when your transcript lands on a desk that's never seen WAEC.
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 ๐Ÿ‡ฒ๐Ÿ‡พ Malaysia โ†’ US
SPM to GPA: How to Translate Your Malaysian Results for US Schools
Your Additional Mathematics is probably more advanced than what your new classmates are doing. The problem is nobody knows that. Here's the language to explain it yourself.
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The Transcript Gap Problem โ€” and How to Talk About It
Missing semesters, mid-year moves, COVID disruptions. A real script for explaining what happened โ€” without sounding defensive, without minimizing what you went through.
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The "Join a Club" Advice Doesn't Work If You Don't Belong Yet
Everyone says it. What they don't say is that groups form before you arrive. What actually helps โ€” from someone who started over more than once.
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Even Moving Within the US Can Derail Your Credits
San Francisco to Amherst. Same country, completely different world. Different graduation requirements, different course names, and questions nobody prepared you for.
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How to Write the Common App When Your Story Doesn't Fit the Template
Four schools. Three countries. A grading system nobody recognizes. The Common App wasn't built for your story โ€” but your story is the strongest thing about your application.
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Who built this

A current high school student who moved through Nigeria, Malaysia, California, and Virginia. Built this because the resource didn't exist and figuring it out alone gets old. Free forever. Read more โ†’

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Not a school. Not a counseling service. Not advice written by someone who read about this once. Everything here comes from actually living it โ€” the wrong classrooms, the invisible credentials, the moments nobody warns you about.

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